Karolina Lien (karolina)

Hello Vernita.
Thank you for providing such clear context. Based on your Tarot spread alongside Christopher’s BaZi chart, here are the direct spiritual insights into his behavior:
1. Is there genuine jealousy regarding Sievon? (Cards: The Star, King of Swords, Page of Wands) No, this is not romantic jealousy. The King of Swords shows that Christopher remains very calculating, emotionally detached, and rational. His reactions to Sievon are driven purely by male ego and boundary annoyance. Seeing another man occupying the bed or being mentioned casually breaks his comfort zone, so he uses sarcastic remarks to assert his presence and mark his territory. It is about his personal convenience, not a broken heart.
2. Why is he so affectionate during and after intimacy? (Cards: The Sun, 2 of Cups, Queen of Cups) The tenderness you experience is 100% genuine in the moment. The Sun and 2 of Cups show that he truly enjoys your chemistry, your warmth, and your feminine energy. When he says «I think about you» or kisses your cheek, he is expressing real physical and flirtatious pleasure. However, for him, this warmth is part of a passionate, mutual dynamic — not a promise of a future together.
3. Why does he become guarded when you send romantic messages? (Cards: King of Cups, Queen of Wands, 5 of Grief/Cups) Christopher sees that you are a vibrant, attractive woman (Queen of Wands) who already has an established partner in her life. The 5 of Cups indicates that he strongly avoids emotional drama, complications, and heavy feelings. Whenever your messages shift toward romance or commitment, he shuts down immediately to protect his freedom and remind you of the boundaries. He wants the brightness of The Sun, but none of the emotional burden.
4. Is he in love with you? (Cards: Queen of Pentacles, 3 of Cups, 6 of Pentacles) No, Vernita, he is not in love with you. 3 of Cups paired with 6 of Pentacles clearly defines your connection, it is an enjoyable, mutually beneficial arrangement centered around pleasure, ease, and physical intimacy. He values you as a high-quality, attractive woman who brings joy into his life, but he views your dynamic as a light, casual exchange rather than a romantic partnership.
Enjoy the physical chemistry if it serves you, but do not mistake his male territorial instincts and post-intimacy tenderness for hidden romantic love. Believe his words when he tells you he wants to keep things casual—his actions outside the bedroom prove that he intends to keep it that way.

Hello, Vernita.
You asked for an honest and detailed reading without any sugarcoating. To understand what is happening, it is important for you to stop searching for hidden romantic meanings where a man's actions clearly speak otherwise.
Your BaZi astrological charts and the Tarot cards you pulled show two completely different energies that cannot form a harmonious union.
Who is Chris and why does he behave this way? I will explain based on his astrological chart. Chris represents the Yin Water element on a Goat. His chart contains a direct, harsh clash of elements in his House of Marriage and the Yang Blade indicator. He is a person with a completely destroyed emotional resource who is very selfish in personal connections. He initially chose a format where he does not have to be responsible for anything. To him, you are an attractive woman with whom it is pleasant to spend time once a month. But as soon as the meeting ends, he literally turns off the contact. He has no resource for emotional warmth, and he cannot give you any warmth at all.
Regarding your Tarot spread – 5 of Swords, The Empress reversed, Queen of Cups reversed, Knight of Swords reversed. These cards do not mean that he considers you bad. They show how he perceives your attempts to get closer. The Empress reversed and Queen of Cups reversed indicate that he senses your inner thirst for attention and emotional vulnerability. He understands that you want care from him, which he directly refused to give, and this forces him to close off and show coldness. And the 5 of Swords and Knight of Swords reversed show that his phrase about wanting to get rid of you was not an accident. It was a manipulative strike to build a wall and force you to step back. The fact that he later agreed to intimacy again without apologizing shows and proves that he takes physical contact as long as you open that door yourself, but he will never take responsibility for your feelings.
Vernita, why are you stuck in this, and what is your path to liberation? You were born on a Yin Metal day on a Pig. You are a sensitive, deep woman with a huge supply of giving. In your BaZi chart, the Element of the Man (Fire) is hidden, which is why it can be difficult for you to read the true motives of partners, and you agree to less, trying to warm up those whose well is empty.
You and Chris are absolutely not a match. You are spending your precious energy on a person who uses you as a convenient outlet.

In 2026–2027, a strong Element of the Man enters your chart. Doors are opening for you to meet a completely different partner — a mature, high-status, open man who will respect you, court you, and text «how are you» every day without your asking. But for this meeting to happen, your space must be free. As long as Chris is in your heart and in your bedroom, new quality relationships will never be able to enter – please hear me.

Think about changing your service technician or pest control company if possible, or do not be alone during his visits, but present with loved ones. Stop opening up to intimacy with a person who has devalued you.

If you need additional support or would like to analyze the image of your future partner in more depth, I am nearby and always ready to help you go through this stage.
You deserve to be the one and only, loved, and not just an item in a work schedule once a month.

Hello Varsha,

Your BaZi chart shows that the issue regarding family property and finances involves strong emotional tension and a tough battle for your rights.
There is a very stubborn and powerful energy in your chart Sheep Blade stars, which makes any financial or property disputes with relatives extremely exhausting. Your current life phase creates situations where multiple parties claim the money or property, or the process gets delayed due to paperwork and conditions.
However, the year 2026 brings a strong energy of Wealth into your life. This means that your chance to resolve the house issue, step away from this situation, and receive significant funds this year is indeed very high!
The main shifts and financial realizations are moving toward the end of the year – the autumn-winter period will be decisive in finalizing this matter.
Keep in mind, because of your chart's specific structure, avoid relying on verbal promises. To secure your money in full and prevent losing any portion at the finish line, ensure every agreement is strictly documented.