Hello, Vernita.
You asked for an honest and detailed reading without any sugarcoating. To understand what is happening, it is important for you to stop searching for hidden romantic meanings where a man's actions clearly speak otherwise.
Your BaZi astrological charts and the Tarot cards you pulled show two completely different energies that cannot form a harmonious union.
Who is Chris and why does he behave this way? I will explain based on his astrological chart. Chris represents the Yin Water element on a Goat. His chart contains a direct, harsh clash of elements in his House of Marriage and the Yang Blade indicator. He is a person with a completely destroyed emotional resource who is very selfish in personal connections. He initially chose a format where he does not have to be responsible for anything. To him, you are an attractive woman with whom it is pleasant to spend time once a month. But as soon as the meeting ends, he literally turns off the contact. He has no resource for emotional warmth, and he cannot give you any warmth at all.
Regarding your Tarot spread – 5 of Swords, The Empress reversed, Queen of Cups reversed, Knight of Swords reversed. These cards do not mean that he considers you bad. They show how he perceives your attempts to get closer. The Empress reversed and Queen of Cups reversed indicate that he senses your inner thirst for attention and emotional vulnerability. He understands that you want care from him, which he directly refused to give, and this forces him to close off and show coldness. And the 5 of Swords and Knight of Swords reversed show that his phrase about wanting to get rid of you was not an accident. It was a manipulative strike to build a wall and force you to step back. The fact that he later agreed to intimacy again without apologizing shows and proves that he takes physical contact as long as you open that door yourself, but he will never take responsibility for your feelings.
Vernita, why are you stuck in this, and what is your path to liberation? You were born on a Yin Metal day on a Pig. You are a sensitive, deep woman with a huge supply of giving. In your BaZi chart, the Element of the Man (Fire) is hidden, which is why it can be difficult for you to read the true motives of partners, and you agree to less, trying to warm up those whose well is empty.
You and Chris are absolutely not a match. You are spending your precious energy on a person who uses you as a convenient outlet.

In 2026–2027, a strong Element of the Man enters your chart. Doors are opening for you to meet a completely different partner — a mature, high-status, open man who will respect you, court you, and text «how are you» every day without your asking. But for this meeting to happen, your space must be free. As long as Chris is in your heart and in your bedroom, new quality relationships will never be able to enter – please hear me.

Think about changing your service technician or pest control company if possible, or do not be alone during his visits, but present with loved ones. Stop opening up to intimacy with a person who has devalued you.

If you need additional support or would like to analyze the image of your future partner in more depth, I am nearby and always ready to help you go through this stage.
You deserve to be the one and only, loved, and not just an item in a work schedule once a month.

Hello Varsha,

Your BaZi chart shows that the issue regarding family property and finances involves strong emotional tension and a tough battle for your rights.
There is a very stubborn and powerful energy in your chart Sheep Blade stars, which makes any financial or property disputes with relatives extremely exhausting. Your current life phase creates situations where multiple parties claim the money or property, or the process gets delayed due to paperwork and conditions.
However, the year 2026 brings a strong energy of Wealth into your life. This means that your chance to resolve the house issue, step away from this situation, and receive significant funds this year is indeed very high!
The main shifts and financial realizations are moving toward the end of the year – the autumn-winter period will be decisive in finalizing this matter.
Keep in mind, because of your chart's specific structure, avoid relying on verbal promises. To secure your money in full and prevent losing any portion at the finish line, ensure every agreement is strictly documented.

Hi Sally! Your BaZi chart and the Tarot cards drawn provide very clear answers to your questions.
Thank you for providing your date of birth.
In your BaZi chart, the element representing a romantic partner is Metal, and your current ten-year cycle indicates that the window for a fateful meeting is already open.
What will he look like, and what is his personality like? According to BaZi, he is reserved and fit, with good posture and well-defined facial features; he is reliable and organized. However, the Tarot’s Three of Cups suggests that in a social setting, he reveals himself to be very charming, easy-going, and charismatic– someone who knows how to bring joy and connect with others. Keep an eye out for men like that.
Where and when will you meet? In BaZi, the meeting place is governed by the «Traveling Horse» star, indicating movement, travel, or a change of scenery. The Ten of Cups Tarot card adds to this, suggesting you will meet in a very warm, festive atmosphere – perhaps at a friend's wedding, a family gathering, a holiday celebration, or a lovely event where people can truly relax and enjoy themselves. Make sure to frequent such places.
Energetically, the strongest month for this meeting is July 2027, though that doesn't mean there are no chances at other times.
The main advice from the cards The Tower combined with the Three of Swords is that the key condition for meeting your future husband is fully healing any lingering pain from the past. The Tower and the Three of Swords call for a clean break from old grievances or attachments. Your future husband needs space in your heart. Once you finally let go of past disappointments, the meeting will happen.
Good luck!

Please accept my deepest condolences. Losing a loved one leaves a gaping hole in the soul, and it is only natural that you need simple human warmth right now – a chance to open up and be heard without judgment.
Grieving is not a linear process; it is a journey that shouldn't be walked alone. I am here to be that source of support for you and to help you get through this difficult time.

Hello, Holly.
Since you provided his date of birth, I was able to look at the natal charts. Dean has a very complex inner nature. Outwardly, he may seem reserved or gentle, but deep down, he maintains very rigid boundaries and has a strong need to control everything. At this stage of his life, his focus is on his own independence, so he does not tolerate even the slightest pressure in relationships.
Your compatibility sparks intense emotion and mutual interest, yet it also triggers an emotional rollercoaster and heightened sensitivity to each other's words, making misunderstandings and arguments likely.
The Tarot cards drawn in response to your question are the Nine of Wands, the Two of Wands, and The Chariot.
Dean is currently taking a «wait-and-see» approach and keeping his guard up. He is mentally keeping his distance and is in no rush to reveal his feelings, as he fears losing control of the situation or becoming vulnerable. Opening up does not come easily to him.
He sees you, thinks about you, and is weighing the prospects of a future together. This is not indifference; he is sizing things up and considering which direction to take the relationship next.
The Chariot indicates that he wants to develop the connection further, but on his own terms– he wants to maintain control. At the same time, he does want to be with you.
All the best!

I can feel a strong pull in your chart — a meeting of fate and free will. Your stars show a deep emotional connection forming naturally, not by family arrangement — a love marriage. The alignment of Venus and Jupiter suggests your engagement energy peaks around April 2026 — a time when your hearts and destiny unite.

Hi! The forecast would be a little more accurate if you specified the dates of birth. At the moment, I see that you need to not only trust Jordan's words, but also check the information in more detail and additionally listen to yourself and your feelings on this issue. You can be deceived and God has nothing to do with it, because each of us makes our own choice. Perhaps God is guiding you, follow his clues, always look at least 2 roads.

Hi!
There is always hope. If you are interested in the guy Rob, show a little initiative — he will answer you. In no case take his refusal personally, if it happens — it does not mean that you are bad. But a date is possible. Good luck to you.

Sasha, a new acquaintance awaits you and it will probably turn your head. I don't see it developing into marriage, but it will be a long-term romantic relationship.