Here is the situation with Jordan..when he first got to Togo he seized control of my bank account when his got frozen due to hacking .he started ordering cellphoned with my paychecks, commanded me - question #3344

From a medical point of view,he has an illness and deviations,he is truly a psychopath, and all his behavior shows this,he  blames everyone around him,in particular you ,but not himself and you need to be careful with  him and take care of your health.

You have described a very disturbing and dangerous situation. The way Jordan controls your finances, threatens, coerces and intimidates you is not just toxic behavior, it is emotional, psychological and financial abuse. He abuses trust, manipulates fear and uses his military background as a means of pressure. This is not love — it is a form of control and power that leaves you vulnerable and dependent. The cards confirm that his actions are destruction (10 of swords), aggression (Knight of swords), overload (10 of wands) and you have already been through too much pain.
He is obsessed, but it is not love, but a narcissistic disorder of control and attachment. Judgement and Justice in the reading are a sign that he must suffer the consequences, and that you need protection, restoration of justice. The Six of Cups may indicate that he is clinging to the past, images that do not correspond to reality, but these illusions only exacerbate the cycle of abuse. Strength and the Five of Pentacles indicate that you are incredibly strong, but you have been driven to the point of emotional and financial exhaustion. The Queen of Pentacles is you: caring, reliable, able to create stability — but only if you are not broken from within.
He is dangerous because he does not admit his guilt, uses fear as a tool and continues to threaten. His «love» is a form of control, not respect. It is natural that you are still afraid, and it is a sign of how deeply damaged you are. But you have the right to be safe, to be helped and to regain control of your life. If possible, seek legal or social support. You are not alone — and there are ways to break this cycle. Jordan needs professional help, but most of all, you need to protect yourself — without guilt, without fear, without doubt.

It's all normal. You've already survived the worst. What's ahead is to be patient and get through the remaining hassle. Everything will be fine.

Yes, he is a psychopath. He also has problems with management, they manipulate him and irritate him a lot. And because of this, he has mood swings. He takes it out on you because he is under pressure from management, but to be honest, such a person is very dangerous. He has breakdowns and uncontrolled aggression.