Is Alexandra being too stubborn or proud to talk? - question #2885

Is Alexandra silent because of stubbornness or pride? This is a question that causes confusion and sympathy. She is like an impregnable fortress, surrounded by unspoken words and unrealized opportunities. Stubbornness helps to achieve goals, but without flexibility it becomes a wall behind which prospects are lost. Pride can inspire, but turning into arrogance, it destroys trust. Alexandra is afraid to appear vulnerable and prefers to remain silent so as not to be misunderstood. Sometimes the reason for silence lies in both traits — stubborn pride. A person overcome by it becomes insensitive to advice and refuses to understand. Only she knows the answer to the question about the reasons for silence. She needs time to sort out her feelings, or the support of others to feel safe. There is a story behind every silence, and it is important to be patient in order to hear it.

Alexandra is a complex person. She has a stubborn character, unwillingness to give in and admit that she is wrong. She is afraid to seem weak or in need of help. She keeps her distance and is not ready to share her thoughts and feelings.

Yes, she is confident in herself stubbornly cities. She doesn't want to discuss the topic of this conversation at all. Now is not the right time.

That's not quite true. She just doesn't really need to say things inside where she has no interest.