What does the future hold for me and Jeremy? Is he worth being patient for or should I move on? - question #2578

You should move on.Ahead of you lives a choice of who to be with.

Hello. Right now, Jeremy feels conflicted. There are real feelings, but he struggles with fear: fear of responsibility, fear of losing his freedom, fear of not being «enough.» That’s why he moves close, then pulls away. It’s not that he doesn’t care; it’s that he’s stuck in an inner battle he doesn’t even fully understand. If you stay patient, you’ll get some emotional closeness, but it will come in waves, good days followed by distance again. Long-term, this dynamic could drain you if you’re the only one fighting to keep the connection strong. Is he worth waiting for? He is worth caring about, but he is not worth putting your life on hold. Jeremy needs time ,  many months or even longer,  to truly grow into the partner you deserve. You can love him and still choose yourself first. The future between you and Jeremy:If you stay, it’s a slow, sometimes painful road that could eventually lead to a relationship, but only after a lot of patience and self-sacrifice on your part. If you move on, a more emotionally ready partner would enter your life within 6 to 9 months, someone who will not hesitate or make you question your worth.

Yes,  you should move on.