I'm embarrassed to say this the last time me and my man Gustavo had intimacy was like 3years ago I believe,with all the arguments we use to do he claims it ruin the moment,now since he been living - question #18879

with this so called male friend of his who doesn't care if he starves or not cares more about his feelings;reason cause we use to get a room together for a night and leave next day now he been sleeping a lot for whatever reason if a person stressing or bored they would find something to do to keep from sleeping so much and I have been telling him make sure you get some rest before we decide to spend time together and I has been asking him so many times,is you okay and he said yes… In the past he has been unfaithful to me I wanna know have he ever had any intimacy with one of these females; Barbara lira(she's Hispanic), Jazmine Mitchell(young black chick), Amy king(old woman almost 56yrs old) or casey gentry… We had a talk couple days ago and he gotten real emotional about why I use to act the way I did having trust issues and he was was saying he wanna prove to me that he's a change man typo.… I realized that when I had my own place we had intimacy a lot now I felt like is he ola avoid having sex with cause I am easily to conceived a child and also I look at that we're not stable enough… Not just thinking about me going to work I be want us to spend time together enjoy each other not worrying about the time or he have to leave so he can be able to get in the house last time we left early from spending time with each other cause he was like he don't his male friend to be mad at him for leaving his clothes hanging outside from the balcony and I'm like why you didn't handle your business before we started spending time with each other… I just hate excuses to avoid our time together and with our past trauma I need to let that go