I’m hoping someone can help me gain some clarity on two connections in my life. If birthdays help with energy, Kyle’s is January 6, 1994, and Randy’s is July 31, 1989. A few days ago, Kyle and I - question #17594

had the most genuine conversation we’ve had in a long time. It became a little flirtatious, but it never felt disrespectful. If anything, it felt honest. He shared things with me that he’s never really said before and admitted that he feels like he’s getting close to being ready for a real relationship. It felt like walls were finally coming down. Since then, he’s gone quiet. What’s interesting is that I don’t feel anxious about it. My intuition doesn’t tell me he’s pulling away or that something is wrong. It almost feels like he’s processing something, but I’d love to know if anyone picks up on what that silence means. As for Randy, who I’m currently dating, I can’t shake the feeling that something is missing. I know he wants to love me, but sometimes his energy feels more like he’s trying to play the role of a boyfriend than simply being himself.I struggle to feel emotional depth, and I often wonder if he’s more focused on maintaining control than building genuine trust. The other day, he told me he wasn’t comfortable with Kyle and me being friends because he doesn’t trust Kyle. I respected his feelings, but I also explained that someone else’s trust issues aren’t mine to carry. I’m not looking for anyone to tell me who to choose. I’m simply asking what you genuinely pick up about both connections. Is Kyle really moving toward me the way it feels? Am I accurately sensing Randy’s energy, or am I misunderstanding it? Thank you to anyone who feels called to read the situation. 🤍