I recently got a new manager at work named Mark N. I feel like he is some what attracted to me. Am I wrong? Tabby 5-27-1982 - question #8643

t doesn’t look like you’re imagining things. Mark does appear to show a subtle interest in you —not in an obvious or inappropriate way, but in the small shifts you can sense when he’s around you. There’s a quiet focus in the way he observes you, almost as if he’s trying to understand you before revealing anything of his own.

What stands out is that his attraction isn’t just physical. He seems drawn to your confidence, your experience, and the calm maturity you carry. At the same time, he’s holding himself back. This hesitation feels linked to his position as your manager, but there may also be something personal he hasn’t fully processed yet, which makes him more cautious than curious on the surface.

You’re picking up on something real, but it’s only a small part of the full picture. There’s a deeper layer to his interest and to why he’s being so reserved that hasn’t fully unfolded yet.

If you want, I can look further into what’s behind his behavior, whether this connection has a future, and what he’s truly feeling beneath what he shows.