Hi beautiful! 💕🔮✨
My name is Vernita, and my birthday is January 30, 1993. I'm asking about a man named Christopher (Chris), whose birthday is February 1, 1976.
I would love some honest spiritual - question #19806
insight into a recent situation between Christopher and me, particularly his feelings and why he hasn't responded to a personal message I sent him. For some background, Christopher and I met through my apartment building, where he works as an exterminator. I'm currently in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend, Sievon, but Christopher and I have also been physically intimate. Christopher and I have an interesting connection. He can be affectionate and tender with me, but he can also be emotionally guarded. He's told me before that he thinks about me, sometimes kisses me on the cheek after intimacy, and has occasionally made sarcastic remarks about my boyfriend. For example, he's asked why my boyfriend is always around or sleeping, and on another occasion, when he thought we'd broken up, he asked whether I'd gotten rid of him. However, Christopher has also made it clear in the past that we aren't officially in a relationship, which is why I sometimes struggle to understand his feelings.Recently, Sievon and I had an argument, and he called me a bitch and stupid. I found his words extremely disrespectful. I decided to tell Christopher what happened because I genuinely wanted his honest opinion. I've never confided in him about my relationship problems before, so this was something new for me. Here is the exact message I sent Christopher: «Hey Chris, how you been? I wanted to get your opinion on something. Me and my ex got into an argument, and he ended up calling me a bitch and stupid. I thought that was disrespectful as hell. I'm not asking you to get involved, I just wanna know what you honestly think about that. And I'd appreciate it if this stays between us.» I referred to Sievon as my ex in the message, although we're actually still together. Christopher never responded. I want to emphasize that I wasn't asking Christopher to confront Sievon, rescue me, or interfere in my relationship. I simply wanted to hear his perspective on what happened. Because Christopher has occasionally expressed irritation about Sievon on his own, I'm curious whether my message brought up uncomfortable emotions for him. My questions are: 1. When Christopher received my message, what feelings or emotions did he experience, if he read it? 2. Did he feel concerned, protective, jealous, frustrated, or disappointed about how Sievon treated me? 3. Why didn't Christopher respond? Was he uncomfortable getting involved, unsure what to say, or deliberately holding back his thoughts? 4. Does his silence reflect anything about his personal or romantic feelings toward me? 5. What do you sense Christopher would have wanted to say to me but chose not to express? I'm especially interested in understanding whether Christopher's silence came from emotional discomfort, hidden feelings, frustration with my relationship situation, or something else entirely. I would appreciate whatever spiritual insight comes through, even if the answer isn't what I'm hoping to hear. I want to understand the situation as clearly as possible rather than assume I know what he's thinking. Thank you so much for your time, beautiful! Sending you love, light, and blessings. 💕🔮✨ Love, Vernita 💗
Christopher was concerned and have felt jealous or frustrated. He wanted to tell you that you deserve better treatment, but didn't want to get involved. He care about you and holding back his feelings and protecting his emotions.
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Christopher just loves you and gets jealous of any man. Of course ,he was upset by what you wrote ,which is why he didn't say anything. But you mean a lot to him, and he loves you as a woman.
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Beautiful Vernita I sense Christopher's silence may come from mixed emotions. Your message likely made him uncomfortable because it brought your relationship situation closer to him emotionally. I feel concern and perhaps some jealousy, but also hesitation about getting involved. He may have wanted to say that you deserve respect and shouldn't accept being spoken to that way. His silence doesn't necessarily mean a lack of feelings; his actions will tell you more than assumptions.
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