I recently asked a client if I could trade him massage in exchange for my ex gf to stay by him for the day- a part of me feels like telling him not to tell her it is from me because I dont want her - question #19656
to feel indebted to me and I want her to feel someone else besides me cares about her. Is this the right choice to remain anonymous in this gift? I also feel like she needs to start detaching from me a little and as much as I want her to know I care I'm not sure I want her to know I set this up for her.
Keeping it secret is best for now. You want to help her without making her feel she owes you. Giving her space while quietly helping her the best way to show love and respect right now.
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Of course, you're right to remain anonymous with this gift .You're thinking about it the right way ,and your decision is the right one.
Hello. I’m interested in your answer to “Of course, you're right to remain anonymous with this gift .You're thinking about it the right way ,...” http://www.ysoul.com/topic/view/19656-i-recently-asked-a-client-if-i-could-trade-him-massage-in-exchange-for-my-ex-gf-to-stay-by-him-for-the-day-a-part-of-me-feels-like-telling. Can I discuss with you this answer?
