Okay do u pull back from jesse or do I ask him flat out what he wants from me ? - question #17275

OK, so regarding you addressing Jesse about the situation, you are being advised to discuss this. for you I've pulled the strength the 10 of cups as well as the king of wands traditionally regarding yes or no these all three cards are a big yes, but more importantly these three cards is a sign for you you need to be confident in this moment and stand up for what you want you have to be brave because you being brave and sharing what's important to you is the only way that you're going to make space in your life to allow you to have more blessings to come towards you and that's very much that 10 of cups energy but this is also speaking of wands in regards to you being a protector but also honoring this is the action that you need to do so that way you can maintain that path that you're on now. The thing is with this is too this is a lot of fire and water energy and those are direct opposites so it's really important for you to take a moment deep breaths and go into this with a very cool head you don't want to go too hot headed because despite what the answer is going to be whether he's into it or he's not this is a step you have to take for your own personal self so that way you can move forward and move on happily

Now I did follow up in regards to what possibly is causing this and nothing directly says that there's no interest involved but there is a lot of energies, as displayed by the three of pentacles in reverse which is very much there's not a lot of commitment here there's not a teamwork here so it's giving you and Jesse are on opposite ends and not working well together. Also in addition we also have the three of swords it's highly likely that on both sides both yours and jesse's you guys are still dealing with a lot of past broken hearts trauma and this type of emotion can make it really hard to move forward sometimes we want to rush into moving forward because we think that when we're with someone else were healed from the past but we haven't actually allowed ourselves to deal with that which makes a lot of sense because we also receive the two of swords in reverse so there's just a lot of emotional detachment happening we are not being in touch with our emotions and what we need emotionally to be fulfilled there is just too much happening and this really brings us down mentally so based on the cards it is recommended that you do talk to Jesse. This is not about getting a yes-or-no answer. It's to allow yourself the information you need to move forward confidently