Hello, I need to ask a serious question and I need to know the absolute truth no matter if it hurt me.i don't want to be lead on by this man any longer if im wasting my time.you all know me posting a - question #13741

lot on here about the man I'm in love with name Ronald Ware and he is unhappily married. I met him almost 4 years ago on a dating site but we are best friends now but we are in love.we have this push pull thing where he is distant with me off and off since I known him.but we always come back together as friends on love. We been kind of doing really good this year for a while now, of course he get distant but it wasn't long periods of time like before.any way he us very very distant again, the last time we actually text long periods of time, we laughed and joked he told me how beautiful he think I am how much he love my eyes, he was really lovey diver with me, I felt loved like I used too.the next day hee only told me he made it home from work 10:47 p.m. and nothing else said afterwards.didnt hear from him in 2 days after that, I text to see if he was ok no reply back, I got mad and front him about through text, he finally replied saying sorry he is ok he wasn't in a good mood. I said fine I was just checking on him. Didn't hear from him the next day. I text him a long paragraph saying how bad he hurt me and maybe he should just work it out with his wife I can't do this anymore getting hurt over and over again. I would leave him alone.he told me it's not me, he going through some things and he is trying to find his own place so he can divorce his wife. Its not me im perfect he just dealing with a lot. He said he will keep me updated. I didn't hear from him 2 more days tgen he texted me earlier saying he is ok and that he is still working on trying to move,he hope everything is well with me and he just wanted to keep me updated like he said. I just said ok hope everything work out for him.that was this morning I haven't heard back from him.i don't know if this is true why he is being distant with me because he is going through something at home and leaving his wife or is he just being distant with me out of fear of how he feel about me or just dodging because we was supposed to have a serious talk this week that I asked him to have? Please tell me the truth even if it hurt, is he distant from planning to leave his wife and stressed out or something else?