Will Jeffs wife divorce him so he can be happy with me - question #13387

If you make an effort in that direction ,Jeff's wife will divorce him so that he can be happy with you.

Yes dear if his feelings for you are strong, he may take steps towards you. Let things unfold naturally.

When asking the cards your specific question, I felt a lot of different emotions. I received the following message from the cards. The cards' energy focused on Jeff and his wife. It felt as though there was more to this than was known. While reviewing the cards, a conflict arose. This spread was loaded with details. Please keep in mind that the way the question is asked is important. Your question, word-for-word, pulled in a lot about Jeff and his wife's energy together, and not just you and Jeff as a couple.

The first 2 cards pulled address your direct question, followed by its influences, with the Page of Coins in reverse, influenced by The Empress. This right here blew me away because this is giving Jeff and his wife marriage energy, not just you and Jeff as a couple. This marriage stops the relationship outcome that you were hoping for. However, I want to be clear that this is not giving the wife a standing in your way. If you look at the image provided, these two are literally on top of each other, which shows how intertwined their energies are. Now speaking on what these cards mean, this is where I sense Jeff is the one holding back, not his wife. The Page of Coins in reverse is not giving a solid foundation. This card's meaning regarding love is very childish, immature, and stagnant, with a boring vibe. This is due to his lack of openness and honesty about his wants and needs; he focused on the superficial. This is where The Empress is strange because this card is very much the opposite. This is the female energy of someone who is nurturing the life they want in a balanced manner. She has everything she wants and needs, and she takes the steps to nurture her life. She is a stable figure in his life. Now this is the part that threw me off. The Empress does not have the energy to stick in a loveless marriage. The truth is still unknown, and she is continuing to build the life she envisioned. This next part was cloudy, but children might be involved in this mix, as the Empress is mothering nature at heart. Being that these cards are so conflicting, I want to state that most places in the world allow for a divorce to be granted with only one person's consent. It's a longer process, but it can happen; this makes me feel that she is not the one with real power, he is. Now this combination of cards also reflects the present.

The past is reflected by the nine of coins in reverse. This card is giving me serious FOMO. The past is filled with the energy of people who lived impractically and maintained superficial lives because it made it easier to feel special. Jeff's self-worth is tied to material things and the need for validation. His value came from what he had, not who he was. 

The future was very telling, as reflected in the three of swords. There is no right or wrong answer here. There is pain and suffering to be felt. This card is related to a relationship, indicating that there will be pain and suffering from a third party. There is no good outcome for what is to come next.

After reading these cards, I felt that there was more to clarify, so I pulled two more cards, asking what Jeff wants, and this is where the World reverse and the Seven of Swords came into the mix. These solely reflect Jeff. Jeff is at the end of his current cycle. He is aware that he needs a more definitive ending to move forward. He knows he is taking his relationships for granted. Jeff is trying to reassess the situation and needs to engage in serious self-reflection about what he wants. However, he wants to hide his deceit. He doesn't want anyone to know the secrets he's been keeping. There is more here than what is known.

The advice from the Disseminating Moon: take a break and breathe to recalibrate your thoughts and emotions before this goes any further. This card asks you to gather information so you can make an informed choice that best suits your needs.