Alexandra can't be the first to do this ,to reach out to you and just talk to you.She doubts her actions,that you might not understand her.
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The cards indicate that there is conflict, tension, even manipulation in the situation. Alexandra believes that asking for attention directly will look like weakness.
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She really wants you to take the initiative in this conversation. She expects positive signals from you that you are ready to communicate with her very softly and warmly.
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Hello! She has a desire to start communicating, and it may happen soon.
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Alexandra is likely to be insecure or afraid of rejection. Direct communication requires courage, and indirect methods may seem safer. She may have learned that hints and play are more acceptable.
Social norms and context are also important: direct confessions may be inappropriate or impossible. She may be waiting for the right moment or topic of conversation.
Alexandra may also be an introvert or a cautious person, which makes direct contact difficult for her. Her actions are a way of «feeling out» your reaction.
The reasons for her behavior are multifaceted and individual. Understanding her motives requires observation and a willingness to engage in dialogue. Perhaps your first step will help her open up.
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