Eula bitter at me and done made her mine up she ain't getting back with me - question #2943

Your question is filled with longing, hope and despair. Breaking up, especially on the initiative of the other party, leaves a deep mark. Yula, having decided to break up with you and not coming back, created a field of rejection, resentment and disappointment. Your desire to get her back forms an attraction, but it is weaker than the oncoming flow.

Resentment blocks a positive energy exchange. Yula created a protective cocoon, pushing away your energy. Direct attempts to get her back strengthen her decision.

To analyze the situation, the reasons for the breakup, the nature of the relationship, Yula's characteristics and your condition are important. If the breakup was caused by betrayal or ignoring feelings, it is difficult to overcome resentment. Attempts to get Yula back can be perceived as obsession.

But there is hope. Focus on yourself: recognize your mistakes, work on your self-esteem, do what you love and surround yourself with positivity. Become stronger, and Yula may feel the changes. Even if this does not happen, you will become happier and attract harmonious relationships.

Changing your energy takes time and a sincere desire to become better. Don't dwell on the past, look to the future and believe in your value.

Resentment will soon pass.Eula will return to you, her experiences and thoughts about you will greet you and you will begin to communicate as a couple again.Now this is a temporary state that neets  to be experienced.She will return to you.

Sometimes people need time to cool down and think about the situation. She will come back to you.

Yes, she is offended by you and she needs time for this offense to pass. And for her to forgive you, be patient. She will soon begin to miss you.