I’m not sure if he will come.
As for words of sympathy — when they come from strangers, they often mean very little. And when they come from people you know, they can sometimes make the pain feel even sharper.

The death of a loved one is a tragedy — a deep, aching grief. Each day may feel colored by memories, by guilt over something left unsaid or undone. It's a sorrow that can't be explained, only felt.
You might want to read The Dark Nights of the Soul by Thomas Moore, or Oscar Wilde’s De Profundis. They probably won’t help much — not really. But maybe they’ll offer a sense that you’re not alone in what you feel.

There are better days, and there are worse ones.
Time doesn’t heal — it just dulls the sharpness.

Wishing you peace, somehow, in the midst of all this.

The word ethics has Greek roots and is related to the concept of «character» or «custom.» As an academic discipline, ethics studies moral principles and norms of behavior—something that closely reflects the idea of character or tradition.

In this world, everything is relative. There is no single truth or standard that fits everyone. People and situations vary. So how do we determine the right thing to do from an ethical perspective? Perhaps by remembering someone in your life whom you consider a model of virtue and asking yourself: would I be able to tell them about my actions? How would they perceive what I’ve done?

Your question goes to the heart of something profound: what does it mean to be a good person—ethical and just—even when that sense of justice might come at your own expense?

Lying is not always black and white. Sometimes, it can be seen as simply withholding something. It may be better to leave something unsaid than to lie outright. It all depends on the situation. For example, someone might ask whether they will succeed at something. If you don’t truly know how things will unfold, what will you say—yes or no? Or will you tell them that regardless of the outcome, you believe in them, and if not this time, then surely the next?

Each person carries their own kind of responsibility, depending on their inner development. Some spend years planting trees. Others dedicate themselves to caring for animals. If you find yourself asking questions like these, perhaps take a moment to reflect on what resonates with you. Responsibilities are as unique as the individuals who carry them.